Why sex is not psychologically equivalent to playing squash
“people don't care if their Partners go and play squash with someone else people care deeply if their Partners have sex with someone else”
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“people don't care if their Partners go and play squash with someone else people care deeply if their Partners have sex with someone else”
“sex rape is not a consequence of misinformation or misunderstanding generally I think it is a consequence of sexual aggression combined with opportunity right”
“the people who've actually won from the sexual Revolution are high status men not necessarily all men”
“the sexual revolution has been good for a minority of men who are able to enjoy its fruits”
“a man who raped a drunk woman is the only person at fault in that scenario”
“it should be possible for women to do to do anything in public and to be completely safe from predators but the fact is that…”
“I can accept in theory that there are people who genuinely do it with absolute consent and are entirely responsible and there is really no…”
“if you are um inscribing in your own mind the fact that choking is your thing choking turns you on you're gonna like want more…”
“the problem is that it Shades very easily into actually being into these things actually becoming almost compulsory”
“what sex positive feminism does in practice even if not in theory is it provides provides cover for a culture that is actually very coercive”
“you're just exchanging one form of economic good for another”
“how can you possibly say that it's fine as long as it's cash it just doesn't make sense to me cash can be exchanged for…”
“on an individual level people might make decisions unique to their situation and that would be fine”
“a man hitting a woman is much more likely to kill her than a woman hitting a man because most men can kill most women…”
“the trait that's most relevant to me and that I write about most in most detail in the book is what psychologists call sociosexuality so…”
“a lot of women are trying pretty hard to have sex like men and are being quite strongly encouraged by the culture”
“the fact that women sexual disgust threshold is a lot lower than men's”
“men have a low bar when it comes to Casual sexual partners”
“the apps they tend to encourage a sort of anonymous Vibe which encourages bad behavior”
“if you don't have any link to anyone like there are basically no consequences if you misbehave”
“a step parent is about a hundred times more likely to abuse a child than a biological parent it's called the Cinderella effect”
“the modal rape victim is 15.”
“you can't suppress that and I don't think you I don't think it's wise to try but you can Channel it in Positive Directions”
“it's a way of like taking that instinct towards fighting and being like destructive and energetic and whatever and and taming it”
“it really discourages women from listening to their instincts”
“if your instinctive response is any kind of distress any ideology that tells you that you shouldn't be listening to that is not a good…”