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Snippet 1613 December 2022

Snippet 16: How to Understand the Science of Social Status: Will Storr

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Insights & moments

The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Myth Buster· 1

Myth Buster08:30

Status is not only negative, it is what made civilisation

it's also what's made civilization it's what is what makes us good people

Will Storr · 08:30

we are used to our condition to seeing status as this negative thing and it can be a very negative thing but it's also the…

Will Storr · 10:30

Hot Take· 2

Hot Take06:30

Monopoly houses and hotels: every game has its own symbols of status

you think about monopoly the way you the way you symbolize stages in monopoly is those little plastic houses and hotels and the money um…

Will Storr · 06:30
Hot Take12:30

Men's Health is not a health magazine

it's like men's health isn't really a health magazine it's a sexy body magazine it's an i want to look good naked magazine

Will Storr · 12:30

Explainer· 2

Explainer01:30

Why tribal life explains modern groups, from football teams to corporations

we're these apes that have mastered the art of um um cooperative living

Will Storr · 01:30

those groups are political groups they're football teams they're um you know cults their religions their corporations that we this is what we do that's…

Will Storr · 02:00
Explainer09:00

Two routes to tribal value: virtue and success

there's two ways of being valuable to the tribe you can be virtuous so you can be generous courageous in battle a follower of rules…

Will Storr · 09:00

Story· 3

Story00:30

From the brain as storyteller to the truth beneath the hood

the brain is is this delusional machine which as i said before remixes reality into this heroic story we're in the middle of the world…

Will Storr · 00:30

what's the truth of the brain what's actually going on kind of beneath the hood

Will Storr · 01:00
Story03:30

Bruce Hood's validation claim that Storr called cynical, then believed

once we've got enough money to live and survive and we've got enough money for our families to survive is just about validation

Will Storr · 03:30

my immediate response was oh come on that's so cynical that's a ridiculous thing to say and then i just sort of thought about it…

Will Storr · 03:30
Story11:00

The iPhone began with Steve Jobs feeling belittled at a barbecue

he said right we're going to show them how it's really done and it's not a stylus with your finger make the thing with the…

Will Storr · 11:30

it began with just somebody feeling belittled a barbecue in in california

Will Storr · 12:00

Q&A· 1

Q&A07:30

Ali's confession: is my real reason for YouTube just status?

a man always has two reasons for doing something the good reason and the real reason

Ali Abdaal · 07:30

if i was like talking to people and then hitting delete rather than hitting publish suddenly that changes the equation

Ali Abdaal · 08:00

Takeaway· 3

Takeaway04:00

Status is only half the story, connection is the other half

if you just say it's all about status that's half the story the other half is the connection

Will Storr · 04:00
Takeaway09:30

Moral superstars: Gandhi, Malala and the vaccine inventors as celebrities

they are moral superstars and that's good it's good that's that's good that that's humanity at its best

Will Storr · 09:30

when you do something good and kind you feel it in your body you go you feel up you literally feel physically up

Will Storr · 10:30
Takeaway12:30

You cannot get away from it: the game is always on

as soon as you're out um in the world mixing with people it's automatic you're judging them they're judging you the game is on

Will Storr · 13:00

we don't need to have fully pure altruistic motives for the things we do to still actually be good

Ali Abdaal · 12:30