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Andrew Wilkinson04 July 2024

The Pursuit of Wealth: Barista to Billionaire - Andrew Wilkinson

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Hot Take· 2

Hot Take24:30

Giving nearly all of it away — and why his kids won't inherit much

After taking a company public and seeing a single holding valued at ~$270 million, Wilkinson says he felt guilty and decided to give almost everything away over his lifetime. His children will be told they'll have enough for college and perhaps a house, and no more; he doesn't want to fund third-generation polo players. He argues money is a toxic force inside families, creating Game of Thrones-style politics over succession and inheritance, and he doesn't want the Wilkinson name to 'mean something'.

my plan is to give away almost everything over the course of my life

Andrew Wilkinson · 25:30

I don't want being a Wilkinson to mean something I want everyone to do what they want to do

Andrew Wilkinson · 28:00
Hot Take46:30

You're already rich and don't realise it: valuing a cash-flow business

When Ali describes a $5M revenue, 60%-margin business and still feeling scarcity, Wilkinson pushes back: a business doing $5M revenue and $2M profit growing 20-30% a year is plausibly worth $20-30 million, plus optionality. Cash-flow business owners only ever see their bank balance and therefore misjudge their net worth. He adds that valuations are largely made up until a sale happens — and says he's jealous of a business with almost no direct reports where the owner does what he wants.

well I think you're already rich and you don't realize it I think you already have 25 million in a net worth statement

Andrew Wilkinson · 46:30

Explainer· 3

Explainer18:30

Four kinds of rich people — and which ones seem happy

Asked what separates rich-and-happy from rich-and-unhappy, Wilkinson sketches four groups: the unexamined automaton who accumulates without purpose (his 'warehouse of chocolate chip cookies nobody eats'); people like Jason Fried who simply refuse to do anything they don't want to, accepting the opportunity cost; people with profound meaning like Musk or Dyson, who may not be happy but have purpose; and the rich-and-anonymous, like Constellation Software's Mark Leonard, famous inside a narrow field and invisible outside it. He thinks the fourth is closest to ideal.

I think there's a lot of rich people who live an unexamined life who are not self-aware who ultimately are constantly just moving forward towards…

Andrew Wilkinson · 19:00

people who are incredibly successful and famous in a very very narrow band and their day-to-day life is completely unaffected by wealth

Andrew Wilkinson · 22:30
Explainer16:30

Jiro or Chipotle: the fundamental question about your career

Wilkinson frames the core career choice as whether you want to be Jiro from Jiro Dreams of Sushi — a master honing one craft in a narrow band — or the person who created Chipotle and scaled a concept to thousands of locations. One has a financial payout, the other an intrinsic one. Having abstracted his own businesses away to CEOs, he found he missed having his hands on the tools and lost his flow state to Zoom calls and contracts, which is why he returned to writing, Twitter and live events.

so I think the fundamental question to ask yourself is are you jro from Jiro Dreams of Sushi or are you the guy who created…

Andrew Wilkinson · 16:30

I missed a flow State my life became Zoom meetings and contracts and Deals and I didn't produce anything I wasn't generative

Andrew Wilkinson · 17:30
Explainer36:30

Mimetic desire: choose your tribe before it chooses your spending

Wilkinson explains that every group has an unspoken status currency — green bubbles versus iPhones, Patek Philippes versus a basic watch, Gulfstreams versus chartered Citations. He recounts a billionaire losing interest in him mid-conversation after learning he'd chartered a twenty-year-old plane. Because mimetic desire spreads inside groups, joining a tribe whose status comes from possessions reliably drags your spending with it. His response is to keep distance from people who measure worth that way.

so I think that if you join a tribe you have to be very careful what tribe you join if you join a tribe where…

Andrew Wilkinson · 37:00

wearing a fancy watch does not help me meet my goals it doesn't give me Freedom it doesn't help me connect with others doesn't help…

Andrew Wilkinson · 38:30

Story· 3

Story07:00

The same pint of Guinness: what the rich guy actually said

Wilkinson tells two stories about the ceiling of wealth: an Irish entrepreneur who owned half his town, greeted by everyone, who admitted he was drinking the same pint; and a multi-billionaire who, asked what Jeff Bezos could do that he couldn't, could only come up with a superyacht. His conclusion is that the day-to-day is unchanged — the same arguments, poor sleep and interpersonal friction — and that your brain travels with you to Bali or London regardless.

kind of looks a bit sad and he goes well I'm drinking the same pint you are

Andrew Wilkinson · 07:30

he goes a bit glassy eyed and he's like super yacht he can buy a super yacht

Andrew Wilkinson · 08:30
Story55:30

The man with a sign on the private beach: the cost of visibility

Wilkinson was anonymous until around 2020, when Twitter and My First Million appearances made him recognisable — something he mostly enjoys as an extrovert. Then a stranger appeared on his private beach, reachable only by boat, holding a sign reading '15 minutes of your time'. Wilkinson gave him an email address, locked the door and got his dog spray. The next morning the same man was waiting at the end of his driveway with fists bared, angry that his email had gone unanswered. He notes Tim Ferriss's stalker experiences as the same problem at greater scale.

there's a guy standing there with a sign on the beach and it says 15 minutes of your time

Andrew Wilkinson · 56:30

at the end right at the end of my gate is that guy and he's standing there with his fist bared and he looks angry

Andrew Wilkinson · 57:00
Story1:26:30

Losing $10M to Asana: why productivity software is a brutal business

Wilkinson built Flow, GTD software for teams, inspired by Jason Fried's path from agency to Basecamp. It launched loudly, hit $40,000 MRR and got TechCrunch coverage, and he bootstrapped deliberately. Six months later a Facebook co-founder launched Asana with hundreds of millions in venture funding; Wilkinson dismissed the product as ugly and assumed he'd win on merit. Asana outspent him on marketing, then matched and beat him on features and design. He lost roughly $10 million of his own money — money he notes would be around $30 million today in Apple stock.

in the end I realized it was like I was Fiji and he was the United States and I was trying to invade him and…

Andrew Wilkinson · 1:28:30

the problem with productivity is that every day someone like you or me or a designer or developer wakes up and go I don't like…

Andrew Wilkinson · 1:29:00

Q&A· 2

Q&A1:19:00

Equity should go to people who take risk, not just early employees

Asked how to structure a software partnership, Wilkinson says it comes down to who adds the most value and how — he accepted 40% with James Clear because of the promotional power, though he usually prefers 60-100% for control. He warns that heavily equitising early employees creates two problems: they can out-vote the founders, and someone valuable in years one and two may still be taking 10% of profits in year thirty, like a restaurant GM who left decades ago. His rule is to give equity to people who take real risk, for example trading $200K salary for $140K plus 5%.

the other risk there is that a lot of those early employees might be really valuable in the beginning and not in year three or…

Andrew Wilkinson · 1:21:00

I like to give Equity to people who risk things

Andrew Wilkinson · 1:21:30
Q&A1:41:30

Membership design: make delivery nonlinear or don't scale it

Reviewing Ali's $100/month coaching-heavy community, Wilkinson objects that the model is linear — you can't grow from 1,000 to 10,000 members without hiring more coaches — and suggests charging less for something exclusive and non-headcount-dependent. His own version is a $29/month Twitter subscription with one open hour-long Zoom AMA per month, which filters out people wanting free mentorship and earns roughly $10-15K a month with no Slack to administer. He adds that the more hands-on you are, the easier it is to let customers down, and recommends a monthly AMA plus a mid-episode podcast conversion funnel.

what I don't like about that is this linear so you know if you you can't scale from a th000 to 10,000 members because you'll…

Andrew Wilkinson · 1:41:30

if you're not willing to spend $29 which is the cost of uh taking me out for lunch I'm not going to engage with you

Andrew Wilkinson · 1:42:30

Tool· 2

Tool1:32:00

Simple boring software beats the ambitious mega-app

Wilkinson prefers single-purpose utilities — something like Bartender cleaning up the Mac menu bar — over complex multi-platform products, calling simple boring software the best business model there is. The caveat is small recurring revenue and low lifetime value, so it may not justify replacing sponsor slots. His preferred variant is finding something high-value that a specific audience already needs — his example is well-designed insurance for freelancers — and taking a stake in it. The general rule: sell something boring to a rich customer, not a complex product to a cheap one.

this is the thing simple boring software is phenomenal it's the best business model ever

Andrew Wilkinson · 1:32:30

you want to sell something boring to a rich person you don't want to be selling to people who are um you don't want to…

Andrew Wilkinson · 1:33:30
Tool1:35:30

Sell the sawdust: turning existing podcast output into recurring revenue

Wilkinson's recurring-revenue preference is monetising a byproduct of work you already do — if you own a sawmill, sell the sawdust as wood pellets. His concrete suggestion: end every interview with a rapid-fire tactical round (most impactful person, one supplement or ritual, three books, one tool you can't live without), tease it on the free feed, and put the extension behind a premium subscription. He argues health and productivity audiences pay well for actionable cheat codes, that it costs 2-5 minutes per episode, and points to supercast work with Sam Harris, Rhonda Patrick, Peter Attia and Huberman. He also flags the moment of conversion — a cut-off mid-episode — as unusually powerful.

I always say like if you own a sawmill you should sell the sawdust that comes out

Andrew Wilkinson · 1:36:00

you say to keep listening uh click the link in in the show notes and you can keep listening to the premium feed and you'll…

Andrew Wilkinson · 1:37:00

Takeaway· 3

Takeaway09:30

Felix Dennis's regret and why you should pick a stop number

Wilkinson cites How to Get Rich, in which Felix Dennis says he wishes he'd stopped at 35 with $50 million and become a poet, but was a 'money monster' who couldn't stop. Wilkinson reads it as a book about why you don't want to get rich, and says he doesn't think most people should want to be a billionaire — that $5M, $10M or $25M is a better life. He admits he read the book, didn't take the advice, and expects his own readers may do the same.

he says I wish that I had stopped at age 35 when I had $50 million and become a poet because his true passion was…

Andrew Wilkinson · 10:00

I don't think most people should want to be a billionaire it it's not great there's lots of really interesting downsides that nobody thinks about

Andrew Wilkinson · 10:30
Takeaway39:00

The short list of rich-person purchases actually worth it

Wilkinson names what money has genuinely bought him: a family cabin that acts as 'bait' for friends and family each summer; buying back time via cleaning and shopping help; a house with a view, which he claims people never habituate to; private aviation, letting him have dinner in LA and still put his kids to bed; flying interesting people to his hometown; and hosting an annual hundred-person event called Interesting People. Yachts, multiple houses, watches, clothes and cars all failed the test. Material possessions, he says, are the height of misery.

an example of how I would use money in a positive way is I bought a cabin for our family and every summer I go…

Andrew Wilkinson · 39:00

the idea that I can go to Los Angeles and have dinner with someone really interesting and be home to put my kids to bed…

Andrew Wilkinson · 41:00
Takeaway59:30

Financial prepper: build to be unbreakable, not just wealthy

Wilkinson's stated goal is to be financially unbreakable — every business he owns could fail and he'd still be fine on conservative investments outside them, down to a second passport in New Zealand with $500,000 sitting there. He cites Andy Grove's 'only the paranoid survive'. For someone earlier in the curve, the simpler version is routing a fixed sum each year into dividend-paying investments until the yield covers your lifestyle — with the caveat that lifestyle inflation can outrun the portfolio.

my goal is that um every single business I own could fail and I would still have enough money outside of that in conservative Investments…

Andrew Wilkinson · 1:00:00