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“There's some research showing that if you've got low self-esteem and you do affirmations, it makes it worse”
“if you want to be a kind person, do go and do kind things.”
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“There's some research showing that if you've got low self-esteem and you do affirmations, it makes it worse”
“if you want to be a kind person, do go and do kind things.”
“We like to think we're in charge of our careers and I don't think we are. I I think there's there's so much rolling of…”
“I think it's crazy. Unless you hate what you do.”
“if you've got enough money in the bank to retire, there'd be no point in retiring cuz you're enjoying doing doing work.”
“Your problem is you haven't got a control group.”
“So, we often have a third group which is that we say, "Here's a lucky mascot or a lucky charm.”
“And we'd put money on the corridor on floor of the corridor. And so the question is did they spot it? And the lucky people…”
“So he's got this great journaling method which was kind of the opposite which was journal was called daft or silly things I've done today.”
“And then what you're going to do in the future to prevent that happening.”
“the way you get rid of those problems is to pre-register your study, to say in advance what you're going to do, what analysis you're…”
“So this whole current kind of focus on the need for replication and pre-registration actually dates back to parapsychology.”
“They become one personality.”
“That's why I don't get nervous in front of 3,000 people, cuz I know that will become one person within 10 minutes.”
“I'm not surprised you're upset. You're focusing on what you can't do.”
“And he said, "I've just seen a poster advertising for a PhD position."”
“They celebrated every mistake along that way. And the only way you lost your job in mission control was when you covered up a mistake.”
“You know, we were so young, we didn't know it couldn't be done.”
“I always say to them, 'What other shows have you seen that you would recommend?'”
“If you become too isolated and too self-absorbed in anything, you're not feeding your mind with other thoughts, other perspective, other ways of doing things.”
“And that's what I find more interesting. What are the tactics? Because often those clichés are very broad brush.”
“I'm I'm sure it's in the the action is always in the tactics rather than the strategy.”
“you're on a desert island, are you allowed four or five books but they're only about one topic? What's the topic?”
“Now, find a way of making enough money to to get by with that topic and you've”
“And they let that thought rest, and then they go, 'It's not tonight, though.'”