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21 February 2022

Why You’ve Been Breathing Wrong Most Of Your Life - Breathing Expert Mike Maher

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Myth Buster· 1

Myth Buster16:50

Mouth Breathing Is Not Always Forbidden

Maher distinguishes the thousands of unconscious breaths taken each day from a deliberate exercise with a defined purpose. He recommends nasal breathing as the overwhelming everyday default while allowing that sighs and some structured practices can productively use the mouth.

  • Everyday breathing and breathing exercises require different standards
  • Chronic mouth breathing is the main concern
  • A sigh can be a useful regulatory behaviour
  • Some deliberate exercises intentionally use oral breathing
  • Rigid fear of every mouth breath is counterproductive

there is a huge difference between how I breathe 25,000 times a day, and a breathing exercise

Mike Maher · 16:50

we want to create an environment where we are nasal breathing 99% of the day, but we can still play with some of the breathing…

Mike Maher · 16:50
#mouth breathing#breathwork#sighing#habits

Explainer· 5

Explainer04:57

What Your Nose Does That Your Mouth Cannot

Maher explains that the nose filters, warms or cools, humidifies, and pressurises incoming air. It also produces nasal nitric oxide, which he describes as supporting vasodilation and helping sterilise inhaled air.

  • Nasal hairs filter dust and debris
  • The nose adjusts the temperature and moisture of inhaled air
  • The narrower nasal passage naturally slows airflow
  • Nasal nitric oxide supports vasodilation
  • The mouth is characterised as an emergency backup airway

The nose does all these wonderful things.

Mike Maher · 04:57

your nose is designed for breathe and your mouth is designed for kissing and eaten

Mike Maher · 04:57
#nasal breathing#nitric oxide#airways#respiration
Explainer07:32

How Over-Breathing Can Impair Oxygen Delivery

The conversation uses the Bohr effect to explain why taking in plenty of oxygen does not guarantee effective delivery to tissues. Maher argues that excessive carbon-dioxide loss strengthens oxygen's affinity for haemoglobin and makes release at working tissues more difficult.

  • Carbon dioxide contributes to vasodilation and oxygen release
  • Over-breathing can remove more carbon dioxide than needed
  • Haemoglobin may retain oxygen more strongly when carbon dioxide is too low
  • Efficient breathing concerns tissue delivery, not merely oxygen intake

you are literally starving yourself of oxygen by breathing through your mouth

Mike Maher · 07:32

The oxygen doesn't want to leave the haemoglobin.

Mike Maher · 07:32
#bohr effect#oxygen#carbon dioxide#haemoglobin
Explainer45:21

Your Breathing Pattern Both Reflects and Shapes Stress

Maher presents breathing and stress as a bidirectional system: stress changes respiration, while a stressful respiratory pattern can signal danger back to the brain. Rather than debating which problem came first, his practical rule is to correct the controllable breathing pattern and then reassess what remains.

  • Stress can make breathing faster or more dysfunctional
  • Breathing patterns send state-related signals to the brain
  • A longer, slower exhale can communicate relative safety
  • Hyperventilation creates a contrasting stress signal
  • Fixing breathing offers an immediate intervention point

if I'm stressed, my breathing is gonna change. But if I breathe in stressful state, it's going to send signals that I'm I'm stressed.

Mike Maher · 45:21

I don't care. Let's fix the breathe.

Mike Maher · 45:21
#stress#nervous system#exhale#state change
Explainer52:00

Why Coherence Breathing Uses About 5.5 Breaths a Minute

Maher describes coherence breathing as a deliberately slow pattern near 5.5 breaths per minute, not a permanent resting prescription. He compares its proposed synchronising effect on respiration, heart activity, and brain signalling with metronomes gradually becoming entrained.

  • Coherence breathing deliberately slows respiration
  • The cited target is around 5.5 breaths per minute
  • Slow diaphragmatic movement affects circulation around the heart
  • The practice is associated with relaxation and heart-rate variability
  • The target rate is an exercise rather than an all-day rule

there is something known as the perfect breath, and coherence breathing is down this right. And that's around 5.5 breaths a minute.

Mike Maher · 52:00

But that isn't how we should breathe all the time.

Mike Maher · 52:00
#coherence breathing#heart rate variability#entrainment#relaxation
Explainer55:53

Why Sucking In Your Stomach Can Restrict Breathing

Maher explains that habitual abdominal bracing can prevent the diaphragm from descending freely and shift breathing toward the upper chest. Because the diaphragm also contributes to trunk stability and movement around the abdominal organs, he connects restricted motion with possible lower-back and digestive problems.

  • Conscious belly breathing can increase diaphragmatic excursion
  • Lower-lung regions are important for gas exchange
  • Abdominal bracing restricts diaphragmatic movement
  • Upper-chest muscles can compensate for a restricted diaphragm
  • The diaphragm contributes to stabilisation and movement around digestive organs

you shouldn't be sucking belly. And that's, that's really bad.

Mike Maher · 56:59

by doing that you're not giving your diaphragm the space to move properly.

Mike Maher · 58:50
#diaphragm#posture#digestion#lower back

Story· 2

Story27:20

The Wim Hof Retreat That Redirected Maher's Career

After a relationship ended, Maher travelled alone to Poland for a Wim Hof retreat despite being analytical and sceptical. Learning to relax in an ice bath and later experiencing colours, imagery, emotion, and a perceived encounter during prolonged breathing convinced him that breathwork deserved deeper investigation.

  • Maher attended the retreat in December 2016
  • His first ice-bath attempt ended almost immediately
  • Relaxing his shoulders changed the cold experience
  • The group performed repeated cycles of thirty breaths and retention
  • The emotional experience prompted him to pursue breathwork

I have some of the most profound feelings and effects in my life, I saw colours, I saw images, I had a weird conversation with…

Mike Maher · 31:59

I was like, I need to go down this this breathwork route now because there's something going on here.

Mike Maher · 31:59
#wim hof#cold exposure#breathwork#career change
Story37:42

The Two-Hour Exercise That Led Maher to Quit His Job

Maher describes Tony Robbins' Dickens Process as a prolonged visualisation of the costs of leaving limiting beliefs unchanged over five and ten years. Contrasting that future with life after removing fear led him to commit to leaving a company where he had worked for fourteen years, though he gave extensive notice rather than departing impulsively.

  • The exercise explores limiting beliefs and avoided ambitions
  • Participants imagine the consequences of not changing over five and ten years
  • They then visualise acting without fear
  • Maher's first commitment was to quit his job
  • He reduced practical risk by providing seven or eight months of notice

Where would I really want to be if I had no fear?

Mike Maher · 41:01

my first one was, quit my job.

Mike Maher · 41:01
#career change#visualisation#tony robbins#fear

Q&A· 1

Q&A19:58

Can Nasal Breathing Improve Sleep?

Maher links nighttime mouth breathing with dry mouth, waking during the night, and poorer sleep, while Ali describes his mixed but subjectively positive experience with mouth taping. Ali's wearable experiment did not produce a medically significant result, but he continued because he felt more rested and avoided dry mouth.

  • Daytime and exercise mouth breathing may carry into sleep
  • Maher reports fewer nighttime awakenings after persisting with mouth taping
  • Ali's 30-day wearable data did not show a medically significant change
  • Ali still perceived better rest and less dry mouth
  • Mouth taping initially felt unnatural and took time to tolerate

I wake up more refreshed. I don't have a dry mouth.

Mike Maher · 19:58

It didn't really yield anything medically significant. But I mean, I still do it.

Ali Abdaal · 23:36
#sleep#mouth taping#dry mouth#wearables