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Positive-Sum Game Audit

Ask of any endeavour: is this win-win, win-lose, or lose-lose — externalities included?

Difficulty
Easy
Time to result
~days to results
Steps
5
Confidence
80%

Boeree treats life as a stack of games and uses their payoff structure as a guiding star: is what I'm doing win-win, win-lose, or lose-lose? Poker is zero-sum by definition — her win is someone's loss — and around 2013 that pushed her to ask whether she wanted 'she was good at check-raising' on her gravestone. The subtlety is that no game is purely zero-sum in practice: even a chess match produces externalities, both players improve, a friendship deepens or sours. So the audit means classifying the direct payoff and then honestly factoring the externalities, which often reveals a game to be more positive- or negative-sum than it first appeared. War is the archetypal negative-sum game; deliberately steering work toward win-win is the constructive move. Crucially, it's permissible to play a selfish game — as long as you don't delude yourself it's doing good.

Origin

After years in zero-sum poker, Boeree began asking around 2013 whether her work was net-positive for the world. Building Raising for Effective Giving showed her how to layer a win-win onto a win-lose game, and the framing became a personal philosophy she now spreads through her YouTube work.

Core principles

  • 01Any interaction, industry or career can be viewed as a game with a sum type
  • 02Classify it honestly: win-win, win-lose, or lose-lose
  • 03There is no truly zero-sum game in reality — every interaction has externalities
  • 04War is the archetypal negative-sum game; collaboration can turn a win-lose into a win-win
  • 05It's fine to play a selfish short-term game, but don't delude yourself that it's doing good

How to run it

  1. 1

    Frame it as a game

    Treat the interaction, industry or career you're examining as a game with players and payoffs.

  2. 2

    Classify the direct payoff

    Decide whether the immediate outcome is win-win, win-lose, or lose-lose.

  3. 3

    Add the externalities

    List the second-order effects the simple framing ignores — skills, relationships, reputational and societal costs.

    Pro tip Remember no real game is purely zero-sum once externalities count.

  4. 4

    Re-judge honestly

    Re-classify the game with externalities included and ask whether you're merely optimising a short-term self-win.

    Watch out Don't tell yourself a self-serving game is 'good' just because you skipped this step.

  5. 5

    Redesign toward win-win

    Where you can, restructure the activity so more players benefit, as she did by layering charity onto poker.

    Pro tip A win-win layer can redeem an otherwise zero-sum pursuit.

In the wild

Gravestone test for a poker career

Around 2013 Boeree realised everything she did was zero-sum: 'I win, you lose.' She asked whether she wanted her gravestone to read that she was really good at check-raising people in a certain position. That reframing pushed her toward effective altruism and, eventually, out of pure poker into work she judged more positive-sum — spreading awareness of win-win versus win-lose dynamics.

A career pivot from zero-sum play toward positive-sum work.

Common mistakes

Assuming a game is truly zero-sum

Ignoring externalities hides real gains and harms; every interaction ripples beyond the immediate win or loss.

Self-deception about doing good

Playing a selfish short-term game is defensible; pretending it benefits the world when it doesn't is the actual error.

Is it for you?

Best for

People choosing a career, business model, or way of competing who want their work to actually benefit the world.

Not ideal for

Trivial one-off interactions where the overhead of a full externality audit isn't worth it.

From the transcript

having it as just a philosophy like a guide star: is what I'm doing a win-win thing or is it a win-lose or actually could…

Liv Boeree · (1:12:30)

in reality there's no such thing as an actual zero-sum game... there's always externalities even to these zero-sum games

Liv Boeree · (1:13:00)

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